sleeping on our disagreements
It’s been a year and five months since hubby and I moved in together. Within that period, I could no longer count the number of problems, misunderstanding, fights, cries, tears, laughter, cuddling and so on. We are young and still learning to keep our relationship in good shape. That is the reason I search for ways and advice to keep our foundation strong.
One of those advice is to “sleep on the conflicts.” Most people would say: “never go to bed angry.” But, hey, it is so difficult to patch things up when both of us are mad. The idea of airing grievance at the heat of the moment is the most devastating thing I encounter. We almost packed our bags and leave each other. I find that it is really better to just sleep over it and talked about the matter when both of us are already calm. That way we can talk about things in a friendly, calm, civilized and intelligent manner.
Relationship is a complex thing, but that’s what makes it colorful, thrilling, fun and exciting – scary sometimes. We hope we will end up being together for the next 50 years or more.
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